Don’t you think sex will become boring to them doing the same thing all over again for that number of years?
Getting the “I’m not in the mood” from your wife could be a very big turn off and it kills one’s sex drive. Well, I’ve got great news for you. After reading this article, you will be able to make her want sex every hour of the day (if you can handle it that is) so make sure you pay adequate attention to the things I’m going to say. I am not a sex expert but I have ideas that might be very helpful to your marriage.
Have you ever wondered why she is not always in the mood for sex? If you’ve been thinking it’s because you have a higher sex drive than she does, I’m sorry to burst your bubbles handsome, but you are totally wrong. The major reason she doesn’t want sex as much as you do is because you don’t give her enough sexual satisfaction. You don’t give her a reason to crave for it. Some men are so bad in bed that all they do is just pump in and out of her forgetting that foreplay is the first step to take if you want your woman to reach orgasm. If you don’t satisfy her sexually, then why will she come back for more? Yes, I’m saying it’s your fault. So take corrections now and introduce foreplay into your sex life.
To spice up your sex life change sex styles and positions. The fact that you are Christians does not mean you should stick to the missionary style. It is the most boring sex position I can think of. There are over a hundred sex positions you can use and the good thing is they are all available on the internet. It is not a sin to visit porn sites as long as you are married and you are practicing it with your wife. In fact, it will make your marriage last longer because in as much as we try to deny it, sex is one factor that we need to make our marriage stronger. Go to the internet, read up on the different sex positions and practice them with her. Don’t ever assume that she wouldn’t want to try them out because she is the reserved type. The truth is no woman will turn down a good fuck. She might be shy to open up at first so that you won’t see her as a whore but if you make her know how much of a whore you want her to be with you in the bedroom, she’ll loosen up. Be as crazy as you can get. Find out from time to time if she has new pleasure spots so you can make her feel as good as she will ever dream of. This will indeed drive her crazy and make her want you each time she thinks of you.
Another thing is that you should always make her know when she is getting it right and when she makes you feel good. Go ahead and moan if she hits that spot. There is no need being a man about it. It makes her proud to know she knows how to fuck her husband and know the right places to touch him. It’s her price, don’t deny her of it. If you don’t moan, she’ll think you’re not enjoying the whole thing and she won’t see the point in trying to please you or even having sex with you at all. Now nobody’s asking you to fake a moan because she’ll feel more hurt if she realizes it’s a fake moan. Instead of faking a moan, direct her hands to the right places. Teach her how to make you feel good. Make her know the things she does that drives you crazy and call her attention to the ones you don’t like. You don’t need to speak it out your actions will make her know. Be nice about it so you don’t spoil the whole mood. If you approach it in a manner that makes her feel like a failure, she’ll get pissed and shy away from it for as long as she can.
Have you ever tried sending your wife a naughty message while you’re at work? This is a good sex stimulator and it could keep her at the window waiting for you to come back home. Try something like “I’ve not been able to concentrate at work all day, all I’ve been thinking about is how to make u cum over and over again. Just wait till I get home, I’ve got it big for you this time *wet kisses*”. Imagine where that’ll get her mind racing to. Or you could go to a sex store and get something crazy for her. Maybe a sex costume, attach a note to it telling her stuffs like “I’ll love to see what you can do with that, be home at six”. Wrap it up nicely and send it to her (better for you if she’s a house wife. But even if she’s not, as long as no one can see the content, you can send it to her at the office). Little gestures like these go a long way in increasing her sex drive. This has worked for so many couples and I am sure yours won’t be an exception.
If you are the type that brings goodies for your wife when coming back from work, you could take advantage of that and pull a fast one on her. How? Good question. Let me teach you the trick. She is used to the fact that you always bring something to her from work. Today, what you will get for her is a blue film. Hide it in your suitcase, insert it into the DVD player when she is not there then wait for her to ask what you brought home today. Put on the DVD and tell her it is right in front of her (make sure she is not in a bad mood else it’ll turn out ugly). Watch it with her, make naughty comments here and there and make your move when you see she is beginning to give you the body language (make sure you’ve had supper before you pull this trick on her else there’ll be no supper for you because the only thing she’ll feel like doing is pounding you and being pounded in return till she falls asleep).
You might think all this is naughty and irresponsible. But as long as you’re married, there’s nothing wrong in being naughty to keep your marriage alive. And moreover, if being naughty and irresponsible goes a long way in saving my marriage, I’d be happy to be the most irresponsible person on planet earth. What about you?
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